Friday, February 26, 2010

Facebook Privacy Settings Explained

I don’t know about you but Facebook updated their privacy settings earlier this year after undergoing some heat about people’s photos being all over the internet. (One girl’s dead mom showed up in a Facebook ad).

But the settings are a bit confusing and need to be deciphered. Why? Because some questions read like you should say yes, but really say no, comparable to Proposition ballots at the voting polls.

This is a long post. But here are a few things you need to know:

1. How to edit your privacy settings

Log into Facebook . In the upper right corner it will say Home, Profile and Account. Click on Account to edit the settings I detail below.

2. How to change your info from when you originally signed up.

Log into Facebook. In the upper right corner you will see Home, Profile and Account. Click on Profile.

Now let’s start with the Privacy Settings. There are multiple areas you need to fill out. This is worse than doing your taxes.

  • Profile
  • Contact
  • Applications and Websites
  • Search
  • Block List

Let’s dissect:



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Privacy Settings

  1. Profile – controls who can see your profile and who can post to your wall
    1. About Me – refers to the About Me description in your profile
    2. Personal info – refers to what you listed as your interests, activities, favorites when setting up your profile.
    3. Birthday – will show your birth date and year (if you filled out the year part, but know that it’s optional and you can just fill out the month and day)
    4. Religious and Political views – refers to what you filled out in this section. It is beyond my comprehension why anyone would fill this out. But if you do, probably best to either limit it to just your friends or customize it.
    5. Family and relationship – refers to what you entered in Family Members, Relationship Status, Interested In, and Looking For fields when setting up your profile.
    6. Education and work – refers to what you filled out under the Schools, Colleges and Workplaces fields when you set up your account.
    7. Photos and videos of me – - refers to Photos and Videos you’ve been tagged in. Now when you are tagged you can go to the pic or video and Untag yourself. Once you do that you can’t be tagged again in that photo or video.
    8. Photo albums – you need to edit each album as you put it up. You need to click on Customize so that you can determine if you want only you, some friends (people you specify), friends of friends, everyone (default). Otherwise it defaults to Everyone (aka. Millions of Facebook users)
    9. Posts by  me – refers to who sees your  Status Updates, Links, Notes, Photos, and Videos you post. again, probably best to limit to just friends or specific people.
    10. Allow friends to post to my wall – check the box if you want to allow your friends to post to your wall. Leave it unchecked if you don’t want anyone to be able to post to your wall.
    11. Posts by my friends – sets who can see your status updates, links, notes, photos, and videos you post. Strongly suggest you set this to the same as Posts by Me above.
    12. Comments on Posts - controls  who can comment on posts you create. Again, suggestion is to set this to whatever you have Post by my Friends set to above.
  2. Contact – controls who can contact you on Facebook, see your contact info and email
    1. IM Screen Name – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    2. Mobile Phone – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    3. Other Phone – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    4. Current Address – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    5. Website – refers to what you listed in your profile information
    6. Hometown – refers to what you listed in your profile information
    7. Add me as a Friend – controls who can add you as a friend from search results for your name and from your profile. This can only be set to Everyone or Friends of Friends.
    8. Send me a message – this controls who can send you a message from search results and from your profile. Do you want everyone on the internet who does a search for you be able to send you a message via Facebook? Probably not. Suggestion is to set this to only friends.
    9. Your email address (physically listed) – Suggest to list it to only your friends or Customize so that only you can see it. Because honestly, if you only friend people you know then they probably already have your email address.
  3. Applications and Websites – controls what information is available to Facebook-enhanced applications and websites.
    1. What you share – Applications you use will access your Facebook information in order for them to work. For example, a review application uses your location in order to surface restaurant recommendations.

      When you visit a Facebook-enhanced application or website, it may access any information you have made visible to Everyone (Edit Profile Privacy) as well as your publicly available information. This includes your Name, Profile Picture, Gender, Current City, Networks, Friend List, and Pages. The application will request your permission to access any additional information it needs.

      At the bottom below the image, you will see a note that says:

      ”You can view the full list of Applications you have authorized on this page.” This page is hyperlinked and when you click on it you will see the list of all of the applications you have said Yes to and you can edit your settings there.

      An example:

      Causes – When you click Edit Settings there are a few things that appear such as whether or not you have a box on your FB page or a tab at the top (where it says Wall, Info, etc). It also lists Info section – this is listed under the Info tab on your home page. If you want people to see it there, great, if not, remove it. And finally, there is a privacy setting here where it controls the visibility of, for example, the Causes’s Box or Tab on your Profile. You can limit it to Friends, Everyone, Friends of Friends, Only Me or Customize.

    2. What your friends can share about you – OMG! This is a nightmare and a MUST edit. Suggestion is to uncheck everything. But entirely up to you.

      When your friend visits a Facebook-enhanced application or website, they may want to share certain information to make the experience more social. For example, a greeting card application may use your birthday information to prompt your friend to send a card. If your friend uses an application that you do not use, you can control what types of information the application can access. Please note that applications will always be able to access your publicly available information (Name, Profile Picture, Gender, Current City, Networks, Friend List, and Pages) and information that is visible to Everyone.

i. Personal info (activities, interests, etc.)

ii. Status updates

iii. Online presence

iv. Website

v. Family and relationship

vi. Education and work

vii. My videos

viii. My links

ix. My notes

x. My photos

xi. Photos and videos of me

xii. About me

xiii. My birthday

xiv. My hometown

xv. My religious and political views

    1. Blocked  Applications - is exactly how it sounds. It’s a listing of applications that you have blocked and it allows you to unblock if you want. But you cannot block applications from here.
    2. Ignore Application Invites – Ignore application invites from specific friends
    3. Activity on Applications and Games Dashboards – controls who can see your activity in the Friends’ Recent Activity, Friends’ Applications and Friends’ Games sections of these pages.

4. Search – who can see your search result on Facebook and in search engines

    1. Facebook search results – limits who can see your search result on Facebook. Your choices are Friends of Friends, Everyone, Only Friends.
    2. Public Search Results – This setting only allows search engines to access your publicly available information and any information you set to Everyone. This does not include anything you’ve shared with just your friends or friends of friends. Suggestion is to uncheck ‘Allow’. Think about it, only people you don’t know would look for you on an internet search engine.

5. Block List – who can interact with you on Facebook

    1. The place where you can create a blocked list of people you do not want interacting with you on Facebook. Note that blocking someone may not prevent all communications and interactions in applications, and does not extend to elsewhere on the Internet.
    1. IM Screen Name – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    2. Mobile Phone – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    3. Other Phone – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    4. Current Address – refers to what you listed in your profile when you set up your account.
    5. Website – refers to what you listed in your profile information
    6. Hometown – refers to what you listed in your profile information
    7. Add me as a Friend – controls who can add you as a friend from search results for your name and from your profile. This can only be set to Everyone or Friends of Friends.
    8. Send me a message – this controls who can send you a message from search results and from your profile. Do you want everyone on the internet who does a search for you be able to send you a message via Facebook? Probably not. Suggestion is to set this to only friends.
    9. Your email address (physically listed) – Suggest to list it to only your friends or Customize so that only you can see it. Because honestly, if you only friend people you know then they probably already have your email address.

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WE HAVE FRIENDS TOO!!!

Timmy from Tacoma writes:

“Hey man, I really like your site. Can you add this bitch?”

“She didn’t answer my fan letter.”

Yo Timbo! We got more skanks than you can shake a stick at on TFB. Why waste your time on that rank wench?

PS: We won’t even give you shit for sending a fan letter since you still know how to mail one…

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Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Facebook

Kirsten Parucha Writes about the Change of Facebook - Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime.com

Online Story – Kirsten Parucha

16 February 2010

Facebook has once again gone under another makeover. And once again, the makeover is absolutely unnecessary.

As of early February, those who logged onto their Facebook accounts would have noticed a subtle change on their homepage, and would also be left questioning, “For what reason?”

The new Facebook layout only pertains to the homepage, which is the first page Facebook users are automatically directed to when first logging on.

Before the makeover, notifications were located at the bottom-right corner of the page. Now they are located in the top-left corner of the page, along with additional notifications of new messages and group invitations. Besides the relocation of these attributes, not much has changed with Facebook.

However, over the course of the past few months, Facebook has made other changes that don’t pertain to their layout. They have made changes with their privacy and security settings, adding more privacy and security options for optimal safety for Facebook users.

Although it’s common for Facebook to change and re-arrange their applications and layout structure on their website, avid users are always temporarily baffled about the changes and left in wonderment.

It’s not uncommon to see status updates such as, “Just as soon as I got used to the old Facebook, they go and change everything again” right after a Facebook makeover.

The reasons for these constant and most likely unnecessary changes: To keep it interesting? To keep it updated and relevant? To lure more Facebook users?

Whatever the reason may be, Facebook users will never figure it out because another change will be made before a conclusive answer is made.

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Dr. Strangelove and ironic situations.

This was around the time when Facebook had changed its privacy settings, search deals were being made with social networks and people were getting that first hint of being uncomfortable with what information companies were going to use to monetize. This was way before Google entered the equation of privacy with Buzz.

Back then, Eric Schmidt had famously quoted :

If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place.

Two months later. Eric Schmidt’s former girlfriend — going by the net moniker RecoveryGirl007 — writes a tell-all blog about her life that includes (guess what ?) her former relationships. So there was a sense of delicious irony in this piece of news :

We’re told the Google CEO’s aggressive lawyers brought down ex-girlfriend Kate Bohner’s online recovery diary this weekend.

Kate Bohner was the name of his mistress. The bringing-down of the website should’ve been fairly easy : It was hosted at Blogspot. Dr. Strangelove was the nick Kate used to refer to Eric Schmidt in her writing — presumably, because he holds a Ph.D. That also explains the title of this post. There are some funny bits about some other famous people. Read that link if you like gossip.

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I shouldn’t really bother about what anyone does in their personal time. It was just the irony of the situation that I wrote the post for.

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I do believe that users need to have a sense of what information they are sharing (it could be inadvertent) with the world. With location-based services getting popular, I don’t think many are aware of how serious the issue of privacy is. For example, sample the recent Rob Me application, that uses location based services to find when people are not at home.

Of course, someone like me recommending precaution sounds way less suspicious than the CEO of Google saying the same thing. But as Kurt Vollegut put it so beautifully, So it goes.

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Monday, February 22, 2010

Last Months Best of Random Blog

miltonious, blog

This Site is a great way to brighten you day, (hey that rhymed)

Check them out

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Featured Neighbor's Cafe 1: "A Relaxing Place To Be"

Here is my first featured neighbor’s cafe offering to you. This is the cafe of my neighbor Allen!

For me, her cafe was so relaxing! Yeah, it seems that you’re in a particular resort having different tropical views!

I like the combination of her colors. It’s mainly the combination or variation or green and blue! So nice the eyes…so relaxing!

Well, Allen is already on the higher level of the game (higher than me) to be able to buy such expensive and beautiful ornaments like what she had presented in her cafe!

So, what can you say on her cafe?! LOve it?! c”,)

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Friday, February 19, 2010

Twitter Series Part One : Beginning with Twitter

Twitter is a service that’s quickly increasing in size.  It’s a blend between a social networking internet web site and a micro-blog.  With over two millions users, Twitter is becoming a popular way to stay in touch with co-workers, friends, family and more.

“If you are not on Twitter then you are not on the world wide web“

As for how you are able to use Twitter to market yourself or your business online, begin with updates.  E.g., do you sell health supplements products?  If so, rapidly describe the product you just made and provide a link to the internet site where it’s available for sale.  Rather than saying buy my product, ask for feedback.  Depending on how your message is looked at, the link may not be clickable.    If anybody likes it, they may buy.

If you’ve yet to try Twitter, you will want to do so.  As stated before, Twitter is a combo micro-blog and social networking internet site.  For that reason, some internet bypass the chance.  One of those is internet marketers and home based workers.  If you work from home or from your computer, your primary goal while online is to bring in money, not make new friends.  This focus is beneficial, but it can also hurt you and your business.

Since you are able to use Twitter to do more than just update your current friends and family members, you might prefer to get started.  If you do not already have a Twitter account, the first step is visiting the internet site, which is located at Twitter.com.  You’ll see a link to get started.  Click on that link and fill out the form.  You’ll be required to create a username, a password, and provide your email address.

“If you’ve yet to try Twitter, you will want to do so”

Although you are able to easily add Twitter friends and followers that you don’t know, some are conservative about accepting invites.  For marketing purposes, use the internet, forums, and other social networking websites for information.  E.g., if you sell homemade products, you could also belong to an arts and crafts or home founded business forum.  Post a message inviting Twitter contacts.  In no time in the least, you could have quite the following.  Remember, the more Twitter followers you have, the more you are able to market your business. Internet Marketing Guide

Get Started and Follow me on Twitter  @Mick_Ando

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